Infidelity Counselling Singapore

Service Description

Supported by Gottman-trained therapists in Singapore, Infidelity Counselling provides a structured, balanced space to heal after betrayal. The discovery of an affair can leave both partners feeling devastated. One may be carrying overwhelming hurt, anger, and uncertainty. The other may be struggling with guilt, shame, fear, or regret. In the midst of this pain, many couples share another fear: "Will the therapist take sides?" Healing becomes difficult when either partner feels blamed, attacked, or unheard. Lasting repair requires something different. At My Inner Child Clinic, Bernard Lin and Dawn Tan use the Gottman Method to create a structured therapeutic process where both partners are heard without losing sight of accountability. The focus is not on deciding who wins the argument, but on understanding what happened, rebuilding emotional safety, and helping both of you decide what comes next with greater clarity. Using decades of relationship research, Gottman provides a roadmap to help couples: • Express needs safely without escalating conflict. • Rebuild emotional safety after betrayal. • Strengthen Love Maps by understanding one another's inner world again. • Recognise and respond to bids for connection that have been missed or rejected. • Replace criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling with healthier patterns of communication. • Rebuild trust through consistent accountability, empathy, and emotional responsiveness. Whether your goal is reconciliation or gaining clarity about the future of your relationship, therapy provides a balanced, compassionate space where both partners can move beyond blame towards understanding, healing, and informed decisions.